Man narrates his humble beginning when he got married.

When I got married, we had no chairs, bed frame or more than a car.

No ACs in the rooms/parlour.

Things that were in abundance in my father's house.

But it was a 3 bed apartment and it was fully paid by me.

My wife came with equipment to fill the kitchen.

The kitchen was the

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most stuck and arranged.

We had just one mattress without a bed frame.

But my wife was more than happy to move in with me.

Gradually, we started filling the house.

My family visited at different times and saw our progress.

At some point, there was no longer space.

The only

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It was our own rules & we were happy.

The moment you begin to realise that you cannot marry a perfect wife, the better for you.

A woman will happily live with you in the "forest", as long as you have your own space in that forest.

And as long as you can help her survive in

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that forest.

A woman will gladly feel comfortable in a camry, than a Benz.

As long as she knows that the camry is yours, and the Benz is not for you.

Women are futuristic.

It's up to you, to learn how to lead them.

If you make her fall for you, & she decides to marry you

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because you lied to her, don't blame her when she starts to revolt.

You've not created an enabling environment for her to live like a woman.

You just wanted her to be your wife, but you were never ready to be her husband.

Creating an enabling environment for your woman, is one

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thing you should strive to do, as a man.

Many men are landlords today because of their wives.

They knew what is required for peace to reign.

A woman will prefer to starve with you, than to starve with your own family.

She can tell you that she drank garri, but she can't say

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that to her inlaws.

This is what it means to cover your "shame".

But you're too carefree.

You don't see these things.

And you expect your wife to behave like your sisters?

She's not your sister.

She's your wife.

And you'll judge her, as if your sister's are saints?

End.

— John Doe (@jon_d_doe) February 17, 2023